My boyfriend and I live together. We do not share bank accounts as I personally do not believe that to be with someone, even married, that you have to share checking accounts, or even credit accounts. We do have our home we bought last year in both of our names, but even that is slightly split in that he is on one of the loans (we got two mortgage loans, it was the best way for us to go at the time), and not on the other because we had varying credit.
Which is funny because now he actually has better credit than I do, perhaps because my name is on the larger mortgage and that symbolizes a higher debt to income ratio for me, especially since I am partially self employed, which is typically a harder income to prove than a regular “salary” job. However, I digress. We both receive plenty of credit offers in the mail, ranging from special loans to balance transfer credit cards, to mortgage lines of credit that can be transferred into fixed rate low interest loans, but he still receives the bulk of the credit card offers.
Like I said, I think that even though I have a higher income and pay my bills on time every month, it is looked at as higher risk to extend more credit to me because of my debt ratio, so he does still get the bulk of the credit card offers. However, when do you know if it’s worth it to transfer a lot of outstanding revolving debt to a card that may be just the same thing pretty much after your introductory period is over? Well, it’s important to read the fine print on these.
Always go for something that says “fixed rate”, otherwise they “reserve the right” to change your APR terms on you any time, which can end up being the opposite of getting you out of debt, but instead steeping your further into it by increasing the interest you owe on your existing debt. Always have your calculator ready.
We’ve sat down and actually calculated, when the term is over, and how much you are paying for monthly payments, you are actually saving in the end on interest when taking on these deals, and sometimes you are better off just sticking with several balances on lower APR fixed rate cards rather than transferring it all to one card. Sure, it’s easier to make one payment a month as opposed to 2-5 payments to separate cards, but who cares when in the end you are paying more money for the luxury to do so?
My boyfriend and I live together. We do not share bank accounts as I personally do not believe that to be with someone, even married, that you have to share checking accounts, or even credit accounts. We do have our home we bought last year in both of our names, but even that is slightly split in that he is on one of the loans (we got two mortgage loans, it was the best way for us to go at the time), and not on the other because we had varying credit.
Which is funny because now he actually has better credit than I do, perhaps because my name is on the larger mortgage and that symbolizes a higher debt to income ratio for me, especially since I am partially self employed, which is typically a harder income to prove than a regular “salary” job. However, I digress. We both receive plenty of credit offers in the mail, ranging from special loans to balance transfer credit cards, to mortgage lines of credit that can be transferred into fixed rate low interest loans, but he still receives the bulk of the credit card offers.
Like I said, I think that even though I have a higher income and pay my bills on time every month, it is looked at as higher risk to extend more credit to me because of my debt ratio, so he does still get the bulk of the credit card offers. However, when do you know if it’s worth it to transfer a lot of outstanding revolving debt to a card that may be just the same thing pretty much after your introductory period is over? Well, it’s important to read the fine print on these.
Always go for something that says “fixed rate”, otherwise they “reserve the right” to change your APR terms on you any time, which can end up being the opposite of getting you out of debt, but instead steeping your further into it by increasing the interest you owe on your existing debt. Always have your calculator ready.
We’ve sat down and actually calculated, when the term is over, and how much you are paying for monthly payments, you are actually saving in the end on interest when taking on these deals, and sometimes you are better off just sticking with several balances on lower APR fixed rate cards rather than transferring it all to one card. Sure, it’s easier to make one payment a month as opposed to 2-5 payments to separate cards, but who cares when in the end you are paying more money for the luxury to do so?